I was perusing various blogs this morning. Hey, it's Saturday, and it's pretty quiet today in the office -- hence my perusal.
Anyway, I came upon a blog about words we love to say. Yes, I am a nerd, since this is the way I choose to spend my coffee time at work.
Words, oh gloriously fun words. I admit that I've ordered pumpernickel toast with my breakfast not because I'm a particularly big fan of pumpernickel bread -- it's just so damn much fun to say. Pumpernickel. Pumpernickel. Pumpernickel! So much better than ordering white.
Quixotic is another good one. I think it's the silent "x" I like the best. It's not an easy one to work into conversation, but I try my best.
What is it about words that make them so wonderful to say -- and repeat -- over and over again? Fabulous is another one that is just fabulous to say.
Of course for every wonderful word there is another that makes me cringe. Beaucoup, prenounced as "boo coo", drives me up the wall. May as well run fingernails on a chalkboard. Maybe it's because that is not even close to the proper pronunciation from French.
Maybe it's just an ugly word.
It makes me wonder if this is just a nerdy reformed English major thing or if everyone else has feelings towards words based soley on how they sound.
I'll go with the nerdy reformed English mojor thing for now...
Saturday, November 14, 2009
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
My Breakfast with James Taylor
One day I had breakfast with James Taylor.
Okay, he wasn’t really James Taylor — I don’t think so, anyway. I suppose he could’ve been, but I didn’t ask.
My father and I were having breakfast in a coney island restaurant in Flint, Michigan when I spied the faux James Taylor sitting across the isle reading The Flint Journal and drinking coffee. I told my dad and he laughed. In retrospect, I’m not sure why he was laughing — because the guy looked like James Taylor or his teenage daughter knew what James Taylor looked like.
I have heard that everybody has a doppelganger (good word to impress your friends) in the world. I don’t know if I like the idea of running into someone who looks just like me. When I was in elementary school, teachers had a hard time telling me apart from a girl named Meghan. We were both scrawny little towheads, but as we grew up we stopped looking alike. Thanks to Facebook, I know we don’t resemble each other much at all anymore.
If these “twins” exist, then why isn’t there more evidence? Another woman looking like me probably wouldn’t draw much attention, but what about someone famous? Wouldn’t another Angelina Jolie or Tom Cruise draw some attention? I would think that people around the world would recognize if their mother/father/sister/brother/friend/neighbor looked exactly like Barack Obama.
I’ve been told I resemble Elizabeth Shue. I take that as a compliment, but I don’t see it. We’re both blond. That’s about it. Maybe everyone thinks that all blonds look alike. That would be okay if all blonds were associated with say, Marilyn Monroe and not Courtney Love.
So, if you think you look like me, let me know. We could seriously mess with people. That could be a seriously good time.
Okay, he wasn’t really James Taylor — I don’t think so, anyway. I suppose he could’ve been, but I didn’t ask.
My father and I were having breakfast in a coney island restaurant in Flint, Michigan when I spied the faux James Taylor sitting across the isle reading The Flint Journal and drinking coffee. I told my dad and he laughed. In retrospect, I’m not sure why he was laughing — because the guy looked like James Taylor or his teenage daughter knew what James Taylor looked like.
I have heard that everybody has a doppelganger (good word to impress your friends) in the world. I don’t know if I like the idea of running into someone who looks just like me. When I was in elementary school, teachers had a hard time telling me apart from a girl named Meghan. We were both scrawny little towheads, but as we grew up we stopped looking alike. Thanks to Facebook, I know we don’t resemble each other much at all anymore.
If these “twins” exist, then why isn’t there more evidence? Another woman looking like me probably wouldn’t draw much attention, but what about someone famous? Wouldn’t another Angelina Jolie or Tom Cruise draw some attention? I would think that people around the world would recognize if their mother/father/sister/brother/friend/neighbor looked exactly like Barack Obama.
I’ve been told I resemble Elizabeth Shue. I take that as a compliment, but I don’t see it. We’re both blond. That’s about it. Maybe everyone thinks that all blonds look alike. That would be okay if all blonds were associated with say, Marilyn Monroe and not Courtney Love.
So, if you think you look like me, let me know. We could seriously mess with people. That could be a seriously good time.
Monday, November 9, 2009
Plain and Simple: Facebook has effectively ruined my life
Yeah, I said it.
Yeah, I meant it.
Sure, through Facebook I’ve reconnected with friends from my past — people I haven’t seen or talked to in a decade or more. However, I’m really not excited for my class reunion next year because, well, I know more about these people’s lives than I know about my own sometimes. I know the names of spouses I’ve never met and children I’ve never seen. Pretty much anyone I wonder about from high school is just a click away. With Facebook on my crackberry, I don't even need a computer.
I find myself toiling over friend requests — both requesting and accepting. "What if I send this and they feel obligated to accept me as a friend even though they don't want to because I'm odd and they don't have the heart to deny me a virtual friendship out of fear of offending me even though they've already established that I'm odd and I'm just annoying them with my status updates and uploaded photos?" Breathe. Okay, so I feel that way because, yes, those random requests have passed through my account. Of course, I've come to realize that it's not exactly the end of the world if I choose not to accept someone. Chances are they'll never even know. But what if that happens to ME?! I can't handle rejection — especially virtual. Forget those people who don't respond to my friend requests within 30 seconds of me sending them. It drives me mad. Not so much that I really had to wait an hour, or, heaven forbid a day, for someone to verify that we're friends — just the fact that this proves how Facebook is out to make me have a nervous breakdown for no apparent reason.
Facebook has ruined my social skills. I no longer have to call people to make plans. It's as easy as posting "I have nothing to do tonight. Who wants to grab a drink?" What happened to the days of actually having to figure out with whom you wished to socialize and inviting them? Poof. Gone. Don't even get me started on what Facebook has done to dating. Not only can you look at someone's profile page to establish their relationship status, but it actually posts a notification on the newsfeed when the status changes. It's like Facebook knows that I'm single BEFORE I do. I'm waiting for it to tell me I have a date on Saturday when I log on and provide me a direct link to his profile to read the blog with the menu for our dinner date.
One of the worse times is when I think of a status update and have no way of updating it. I save it. In my brain. Where really important thoughts should go. Instead, I have "Erin is wishing she could find her crackberry to update her status while she enjoys a potpie" taking up a place that should say "remember to check batteries in smoke alarm." If I die in a fire, you'll know why.
None of this even tackles the HOURS of my life that get sucked into Facebookland. Finding new groups to join, causes to support, people to chat with, GAH! It's ridiculous! Sometimes, I find myself looking at page or photo of people I've never seen/will never see and can't remember how I got there. It's like this one time in college one of my girlfriends got so stoned she forgot how she had gotten to the other side of the living room. No idea how I ended up stalking strangers — but I did.
Facebook is evil. It sucks my time, my life, and, at times, my sanity.
Wait for a moment while I update my status...
Yeah, I meant it.
Sure, through Facebook I’ve reconnected with friends from my past — people I haven’t seen or talked to in a decade or more. However, I’m really not excited for my class reunion next year because, well, I know more about these people’s lives than I know about my own sometimes. I know the names of spouses I’ve never met and children I’ve never seen. Pretty much anyone I wonder about from high school is just a click away. With Facebook on my crackberry, I don't even need a computer.
I find myself toiling over friend requests — both requesting and accepting. "What if I send this and they feel obligated to accept me as a friend even though they don't want to because I'm odd and they don't have the heart to deny me a virtual friendship out of fear of offending me even though they've already established that I'm odd and I'm just annoying them with my status updates and uploaded photos?" Breathe. Okay, so I feel that way because, yes, those random requests have passed through my account. Of course, I've come to realize that it's not exactly the end of the world if I choose not to accept someone. Chances are they'll never even know. But what if that happens to ME?! I can't handle rejection — especially virtual. Forget those people who don't respond to my friend requests within 30 seconds of me sending them. It drives me mad. Not so much that I really had to wait an hour, or, heaven forbid a day, for someone to verify that we're friends — just the fact that this proves how Facebook is out to make me have a nervous breakdown for no apparent reason.
Facebook has ruined my social skills. I no longer have to call people to make plans. It's as easy as posting "I have nothing to do tonight. Who wants to grab a drink?" What happened to the days of actually having to figure out with whom you wished to socialize and inviting them? Poof. Gone. Don't even get me started on what Facebook has done to dating. Not only can you look at someone's profile page to establish their relationship status, but it actually posts a notification on the newsfeed when the status changes. It's like Facebook knows that I'm single BEFORE I do. I'm waiting for it to tell me I have a date on Saturday when I log on and provide me a direct link to his profile to read the blog with the menu for our dinner date.
One of the worse times is when I think of a status update and have no way of updating it. I save it. In my brain. Where really important thoughts should go. Instead, I have "Erin is wishing she could find her crackberry to update her status while she enjoys a potpie" taking up a place that should say "remember to check batteries in smoke alarm." If I die in a fire, you'll know why.
None of this even tackles the HOURS of my life that get sucked into Facebookland. Finding new groups to join, causes to support, people to chat with, GAH! It's ridiculous! Sometimes, I find myself looking at page or photo of people I've never seen/will never see and can't remember how I got there. It's like this one time in college one of my girlfriends got so stoned she forgot how she had gotten to the other side of the living room. No idea how I ended up stalking strangers — but I did.
Facebook is evil. It sucks my time, my life, and, at times, my sanity.
Wait for a moment while I update my status...
Saturday, November 7, 2009
So Apparently Now I Blog
This is my first official blog. It's kind of daunting, actually. So much space to fill...
I was inspired to write today. Not necessarily my ordinary musings that get stored on my computer or scratched in a notebook never to see the light of day again, but something to share. Something to get over the incredible fear of regection and failure that I've somehow managed to acquire.
I wasn't always afraid.
When I was in high school and even into college, I thought I was invincible. I had teachers praising my work. I had poetry selected for publication in anthologies. I had pieces performed on arts nights. I had confidence.
Something changed when I was in a creative writing class in college. I remember the short story assignment well, and I chose to fictionalize a recent breakup. I poured my heart and tears into the story and turned it in to the professor who, in turn, broke my heart all over again.
There was a part to the story in which I lie in bed, next to the man who did not reciprocate my love, and all I could hear was the Bonnie Rait song "I Can't Make You Love Me" playing over and over in my head. A soundtrack that crushed me. A soundtrack that summed up the entire experience.
The professor, with his vicious red pen, pointed out that Bonnie Rait running through my head was entirely too cliche.
Too cliche?
Excuse me?
How can the truth be cliche? Plus, isn't there a portion of every love or breakup story that is cliched? Isn't that part of what makes us relive them... because it's something that we all can relate to?
That's when I began to doubt myself. If I can't portray the truth in a convincing manner, who the hell am I to think I can create something convincing?
So welcome to "That's How I Roll." It will be an adventure to say the least...
I was inspired to write today. Not necessarily my ordinary musings that get stored on my computer or scratched in a notebook never to see the light of day again, but something to share. Something to get over the incredible fear of regection and failure that I've somehow managed to acquire.
I wasn't always afraid.
When I was in high school and even into college, I thought I was invincible. I had teachers praising my work. I had poetry selected for publication in anthologies. I had pieces performed on arts nights. I had confidence.
Something changed when I was in a creative writing class in college. I remember the short story assignment well, and I chose to fictionalize a recent breakup. I poured my heart and tears into the story and turned it in to the professor who, in turn, broke my heart all over again.
There was a part to the story in which I lie in bed, next to the man who did not reciprocate my love, and all I could hear was the Bonnie Rait song "I Can't Make You Love Me" playing over and over in my head. A soundtrack that crushed me. A soundtrack that summed up the entire experience.
The professor, with his vicious red pen, pointed out that Bonnie Rait running through my head was entirely too cliche.
Too cliche?
Excuse me?
How can the truth be cliche? Plus, isn't there a portion of every love or breakup story that is cliched? Isn't that part of what makes us relive them... because it's something that we all can relate to?
That's when I began to doubt myself. If I can't portray the truth in a convincing manner, who the hell am I to think I can create something convincing?
So welcome to "That's How I Roll." It will be an adventure to say the least...
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